Social media can be an awesome way for kids to connect, but it’s also the most prevalent platform for cyberbullying. What do you do when your child is being cyberbullied? Here are some steps to prevent it and help your child through it.
Be Aware
First, it’s important to know exactly what cyberbullying is, and what methods cyberbullies use. This way, you can more effectively address it with your child and watch out for it. Know what harassment, impersonation, exclusion, and other tactics look like, and be able to identify these easily. For example, if your child is receiving hurtful and vulgar aggressive messages, they are probably a victim of “flaming.” Know the warning signs of cyberbullying, and take note if your child exhibits these. Does spending time online routinely upset them? Are they unwilling to share information about their online activities? If so, start a discussion with them. They may be a victim of cyberbullying.
Prevent It
Establish your home as a safe area. Know your child’s passwords and follow any social media accounts they have. Encouraging dialogue with your child about what they do online, rather than just forcing yourself in, will help them trust that they can open up to you. Show a genuine interest in their opinions, and make sure they know what bullying looks like as well. It may also be a good idea to set up a contract with your child. A contract like this one sets mutually understood boundaries for social media and internet use.
Take Action
If your child is a victim of cyberbullying, it’s time to do something about it. First, ask your child about it, and be careful not to overreact or under react. Make sure they understand the seriousness. Next, collect any evidence of the bullying you can through printouts or screenshots. It is important not to engage the bully any further. Report them on social media, delete them or block them from further contact with your child. Talk to the bully’s parents about the situation, and make sure they are aware. Finally, if you feel the situation is severe enough, contact the police or the child’s school.
Although bullying is not exclusive to the internet, cyberbullying is harder to catch and just as dangerous. But with the right actions you can help protect your child.
